Paternity leave in the United States is a bit like an endangered species—much-discussed, but hard to find on the ground. Unlike many other countries—such as Canada—which guarantee paid time off for new dads, the US has no federal mandate, leaving policies up to states and individual employers. This means navigating paternity leave can feel like assembling IKEA furniture without instructions—possible, but unnecessarily complicated.
So, what are the options for working dads (and their employers) when a new baby arrives? Let’s break it down.
When it comes to paternity leave in the US, eligibility depends on where you work and who you work for—because, fun fact, there’s no federal guarantee of paid leave. The Family and Medical Leave Act (FMLA) offers up to 12 weeks of unpaid leave for new parents, but only if they work for a company with 50+ employees, have been there at least a year, and logged 1250 hours in the past 12 months. When it comes to small businesses, state laws or company policies determine the rules.
To actually qualify for leave benefits (as in, paid time off), fathers usually need to rely on state programs, employer perks, or short-term disability insurance. A handful of states—including California, New York, and New Jersey—offer paid family leave, while some companies have stepped up with their own policies (because, let’s be honest, offering dads time to bond with their babies is good for everyone involved).
Navigating paternity leave in the US can feel like assembling a very complex puzzle.
Here's a selected state-by-state breakdown to help you start piecing it together:
As may be evident, California and New York offer two of the most robust paternity leave programs in the US, both providing paid family leave (PFL) for bonding with a new child. In California, eligible workers can take up to eight weeks of partially paid leave through the state’s PFL program, which is funded by employee payroll contributions. New York’s PFL allows for up to 12 weeks of partially paid leave, with wage replacement based on a percentage of the worker’s earnings, subject to a statewide cap. Importantly, both states’ programs run in addition to the federal Family and Medical Leave Act (FMLA), which provides up to 12 weeks of job-protected but unpaid leave for eligible employees—meaning that in these states, new parents may have some income while on leave, unlike in many other parts of the country.
For other states not listed here, many of which don't have paid family leave programs, paternity leave options are mostly limited to FMLA protections (unpaid leave) or employer-provided benefits.
Here’s a quick summary of what that means:
Paternity leave can be a short-term expense for companies, especially if they offer paid leave or need to cover workloads with temporary hires. But in the long run, it can be a very smart financial investment.
Offering paternity leave improves employee retention, reducing costly turnover and recruitment expenses. It also boosts morale, productivity, and loyalty, leading to a more engaged workforce. Plus, companies that provide strong parental leave policies are more attractive to top talent, giving them a competitive edge in hiring.
In short, while there’s an upfront cost, the long-term benefits—happier employees, lower turnover, and a stronger reputation—often outweigh it.
Businesses that offer generous paternity leave don’t just support new fathers—they also stand out as forward-thinking, employee-friendly workplaces. In a competitive job market, strong parental leave policies signal that a company values work-life balance and employee well-being, which can enhance brand reputation, attract top talent, and even boost customer perception. Companies that go beyond the bare minimum set themselves apart as golden standard employers, especially in industries where benefits matter just as much as salary.
For employees, paternity leave can be a make-or-break factor when choosing between job offers. Many workers—especially Millennials and Gen Z—prioritize family-friendly benefits over higher pay alone, viewing parental leave as a sign of an inclusive, supportive company culture. Businesses that recognize this shift and offer competitive leave policies are more likely to attract and retain skilled, loyal employees who feel valued beyond their productivity.
Never forget that your people are your greatest asset by far.